Destiny Rymer: No One-Size-Fits-All Path to Success

Destiny Rymer. Photo courtesy of Rymer
Photo courtesy of Rymer
Destiny Rymer

Destiny Rymer鈥檚 academic path hasn鈥檛 followed a straight line鈥攁nd that鈥檚 exactly what makes her story so powerful. As one of the 2024鈥2025 CLA Outstanding Student in Women, Gender and Sexuality Studies, Rymer embodies the spirit of persistence, purpose, and compassion.

Rymer is completing a bachelor鈥檚 degree in anthropology with a minor in women, gender, and sexuality studies, all while working full time in healthcare鈥攁 field she entered at just 15 years old. 鈥淏alancing work and school hasn鈥檛 always been easy,鈥 she shared, 鈥渆specially during a major transition when I moved from Alaska to Kentucky in the middle of a semester. But through that experience I鈥檝e gained a lot of perspective about the different paths students can take to succeed.鈥

For Rymer, her motivation has come from staying focused on the bigger picture. 鈥淲orking toward something meaningful kept me going,鈥 she said. Her husband has been a crucial support system, particularly during their move. 鈥淚t would鈥檝e been easy to let something slip through the cracks,鈥 she said, 鈥渂ut he helped ground me and reminded me of my goals.鈥 Rymer also finds motivation in her patients and coworkers: 鈥淏eing in the medical field has shown me the importance of compassion, advocacy, and connection鈥攚hich all reinforce my academic work.鈥

That connection between personal and academic purpose deepened through an unexpected turning point: a conversation with a healthcare provider who had studied anthropology. 鈥淚 was intrigued,鈥 Rymer said. 鈥淚 took a course, and I completely fell in love with it.鈥 Anthropology became more than a discipline鈥攊t became a lens through which she could understand people, systems, and lived experience, and use those insights to improve healthcare.

As she continued, Rymer found a natural link between anthropology and women and gender studies. 鈥淚 discovered a strong passion for women鈥檚 health,鈥 she said. 鈥淚鈥檓 especially interested in using medical anthropology to amplify the voices of women and patients who often go unheard.鈥 That realization brought clarity: 鈥淚 don鈥檛 have to choose between science and advocacy. I can do both.鈥

Rymer now hopes to continue working in healthcare and apply what she鈥檚 learned to transform how care is delivered. 鈥淢edical anthropology helps providers go beyond symptoms,鈥 she explained. 鈥淚t鈥檚 about understanding lived experiences, appreciating culture, and offering care that鈥檚 informed, respectful, and truly patient-centered.鈥

Her advice for future students? 鈥淭here鈥檚 no single right way to do college,鈥 Rymer said. 鈥淓veryone鈥檚 journey is valid. What matters is finding your own balance, staying true to your values, and being proud of the progress you make鈥攅ven if it looks different from the person next to you.鈥

As she put it in her closing remarks: 鈥淏eing recognized as the CLA Outstanding Student of the Year is something I鈥檓 incredibly honored by. I鈥檓 proud of the journey I鈥檝e taken, even with all its ups and downs鈥攁nd I鈥檓 grateful to be part of a community that values different kinds of student experiences.鈥

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